Dating too young
While it is a great thrill to meet someone you connect with, or feel attracted to, don’t let your love hunger to be in a relationship throw you into a situation that is going to distract and hurt you.Amber is honest when she admits her need to always be in a relationship: I’m always told that I act immature in relationships and I tend to push them over the edge.
When a girl is hurt by a male or she lives life with an absent father figure, there is a void in her soul and she searches high and low to fill it.But sadly, many people want to feel that rush of emotion that makes them feel like they are in love. The truth is that the best dating relationships develop out of great friendships.So they push hard and quickly to feel that overwhelming emotion that says, I am in love. Riah describes how rushing into a relationship has a lot of disadvantages: “First, if you go too far you could get hurt mentally because of a bad break-up, and physically you could get an STD or something.Just remember what Jessica has to say: “Don’t jump in too quick, get to know the guy first.Talk to people who know him and that will help you see the real him.Because then you gave your heart away way too fast and you’re open to be hurt very easily.
To me that is like settling for anything and you shouldn’t settle for less than the best.
Meeting someone who suddenly makes you feel alive and loved is very exciting.
You may think no one has ever made you feel like this and you can’t help but be amazed at the chemistry, or electricity between you and this new love. But sadly those involved don’t take the time to get to know each other before jumping into something serious.
Don’t rush into something that you didn’t even have time to think about.” When you rush into a romantic relationship you: The picture of relationships we see on television or in the movies doesn’t allow us to see the time and commitment it takes to build a solid foundation.
After a 22 minute episode or a 90 minute move we are left thinking the most romantic relationships happen very quickly, are extremely intense and will last forever.
The truth is, this feeling of urgency and intensity or strong attraction toward another person is not necessarily a reliable indicator of whether you are in love or should immediately dive into a serious dating relationship.