Bitch dating etc guide inner man relationship
He was a bartender at a restaurant I used to frequent and after several flirty exchanges, he finally asked for my number.On the night of our first date, I had to delay our meeting time by a few hours because I forgot I was supposed to be having dinner with some friends.
When you are overly accommodating to him then he doesn’t feel a real push or motivation to step up and invest in you. You know you can get to it at any time so you don’t really feel an urgency.The frequency of calls and texts declined…he was always “too busy” to hang out…he stopped initiating contact (but would always respond when I reached out to him, acting nice and normal like always)…Eventually, I stopped reaching out because it was starting to make me feel like an idiot…and he was never to be heard from again.guys after Craig and let me tell you, whenever I’ve been overly available I went through that same cycle.They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.
By that, I mean fill your life with fun, meaningful activities.
At this point, you may notice that he starts pulling away until he eventually pulls a swift Houdini on you, vanishing into the abyss without even uttering “abracadabra” to give you some warning!
While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.
When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.
It shows a lot about you and made me even more excited to see you.” I was off to a great start, but that didn’t last.
When you are this person, you won’t have to “play games” and will naturally activate a man’s natural desire to pursue.