Attractive women dating ugly men
The problem is this: 1) Attraction is a genetic thing – women are programmed to respond to certain qualities like height, dominance, confidence, and so on.Historically (we’re talking hundreds of thousands of years) the men who possessed these qualities produced offspring with a higher chance of survival than men who didn’t, and as a result these men were responsible for a greater percentage of surviving children.
Now, there are of course some women who will only date men above a certain height, income level, and so on, but the majority of women aren’t like this.He’s just a normal guy who’s comfortable with who he is, confident, well put together, and willing to put the work in to actually go out and meet people.I know I just said women are genetically predisposed to want these things, and it might seem like I’m contradicting myself here.It’s a question often asked: What attracts women to men?Are some guys just born naturally attractive to women, or is it how a man lives his life that makes him attractive?So why would we believe things like money, social status, and so on are correlates rather than causes?
The reason is rooted in the way women identify these traits in men.
To counter this, women must be able to differentiate between the men who genuinely have wealth and social status, and those who are faking.
One way to do this is by developing a heightened sense of social perception and recognizing what successful man behaviour looks like compared to the behaviour of an imitator.
We no longer have to run from predators, hunt and forage for food, and engage in conflict with neighbouring tribes.
Things that were typically a disadvantage aren’t such a big deal anymore – people who would’ve been left for dead can now be productive, successful members of society who can provide for a family.
The reason why it SEEMS like height, looks, social status, and money attract women is a common cognitive error: a misunderstanding of correlation and causality.